The first Cape May Lighthouse was built in 1823, but due to erosion the lighthouse was moved and again, soon the lighthouse was moved and rebuilt in 1847, yet thanks to erosion the lighthouse was moved again but rebuilt in 1859. The third Cape May Lighthouse is still standing and if you go to Cape May, this is the lighthouse that you will see. This third lighthouse was built under the supervision of U.S. Army engineer William F. Raynolds. The lighthouse was automated in 1948. So far the lighthouse has changed ownership twice, the first owner was the Coast Guard, but the ownership changed hands into the state of New Jersey, who then leases the lighthouse to MAC (Mid-Atlantic Center for Arts and Humanities). MAC is the one that cleaned up the lighthouse and made it into a still a functional lighthouse and a museum.

The houses on the sides of the lighthouse are the three keepers’ houses. The house on the left is for the main keeper, the house on the right is for the two assistant keepers. Before the picture was taken the houses were about the same size. But soon, due to the assistant keepers’ complaints the house was expanded in 1903. The second keeper’s house was burnt down in 1968.

-HF   

🙂 I can’t wait to tell you about the beach but also about Lucy who is a wooden elephant that is a home. Now  I really want to tell you about her BUT I want to tell you about how I know about Lucy. My brother and I were at my grandparent’s beach house which we where renting for  that week. If you want read Ocean City, New Jersey go to that page. Now back to how I know about Lucy.  My brother and I on the fifth day we went to a lighthouse then Lucy. We waited for 20-30 minutes while we waited I got a little  elephant to remind me of Lucy.

First, Lucy is a 65 foot wood elephant. Lucy is made  out of one million pieces of wood.Lucy was built to attract people . She has entertained men and women for 128 years. She was built in 1881. People wanted to destroy Lucy and build a hotel but some people raised a thing named  “Save Lucy Committee”and they saved Lucy!!!!!!!!!  Lucy does have one secret – Lucy is not a girl! Lucy is an Asian elephant and  in the Asian species, only the males have tusks. So when we were inside Lucy we went up to the belly. Then we watched a video then went up to Lucy’s back thing  then we went down   to her belly and down. That is the end.

one announcement I will not be remaking how to make oatmeal.

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A few posts ago I wrote about our trip schedule as it was, a haphazard jumping about Oceania. Since then I’ve changed it significantly to be more linear with less plane time.

So – here it is now!

North Island New Zealand for about a week – agenda is Waitomo caves, Rotorua, Hobbiton, Coromandel, and Auckland.

Sydney 3 days – to do whatever one does in Sydney.

Cairns 3 days – Barrier reef, Daintree National Forest (avoid the crocs)

Uluru 4 days – driving through the outback and camping!

Darwin 4 days – tropical north Australia, beach, again avoid the crocs

Bali for 5 days – whatever one does in Bali. 🙂

Cambodia/Vietnam 2 1/2 weeks total – Angkor Wat, Beaches, Phnom Penh. In Vietnam it will largely be time spent in Da Nang due to the weather at that time of year.

Then to Japan – I’m especially glad I’m doing this post because as I went to check my exact flight I realized that I hadn’t booked this flight, even though I thought I had. Um, oops. Done now.

We’ll be in Japan for 2 1/2 weeks, going from Tokyo to Hiroshima and then flying out of Osaka to…Athens! 3 days in Athens and then on to Timisoara, Romania for the Fulbright leg. Further planning after that is being discussed. We know for sure of a stay in Budapest and one in Bologna and India somewhere over December but haven’t figured out specifics yet.

Total cost for airline tickets thus far is about $12,000, which all things considered isn’t too bad if you ask me!

Next step is booking some places to stay. Trying to do mostly Air B&Bs to have some flexibility with cooking and save some cash that way, especially in Australia and NZ where there isn’t necessarily different local food that we want to try.

As we get ready to leave, I also think about what it will be like to leave medical practice and working for an entire year as well. I’m not the first to do this, of course, many others take a break from their work for other reasons including family, illness and others. Still, it gives me some pause.

I have often had a mixed relationship with medicine. For a very, very long time I did not really enjoy medicine at all. I felt as if I had gotten into medicine as a way to help generally healthy and productive people who had unfortunately become ill, and treat them back to their healthy and productive lives. Much of what I now do is treat chronically ill people who have flares of their chronic illness, and much of that chronic illness is self inflicted by lifestyle habits such as smoking, drinking, drugs, and poor diet. Add to that the increasing pressures put on doctors to meet unobtainable and poorly measured metrics and the constant barrage of negative media about physicians (they’re just after our money, in the pockets of the drug company, etc.) and it’s not an easy path. Of course, the moment a physician starts talking about how it is a difficult career, they’re roundly criticized for complaining from their privileged position. I think if this was something I was getting into solely for the money, there are easier jobs to attain with less training that pay a hell of a lot more in which you’re not responsible for someone else’s life.  Anyway, often times at work people will answer the question “How’s it going?” with a sarcastic”Oh, you know, living the dream,” as I did myself for quite some time.

Having said all that and having the perspective of a few more years under my belt and seeing what other careers are like, in many ways I do think we’re living the dream in the medical profession, at least in my neck of the woods. I have a job in which I am helping people at a critical juncture in their lives, and doing things that can really make a difference. I’m in a job which is intellectually challenging and is never dull or boring. I work with other intelligent people and get to collaborate in interesting ways. For all of this, I’m compensated fairly and and am able to live a comfortable life. Are there very rough days? Are there people who I’d rather not deal with? Are there some days I wish I could just stay home? Well, sure, but isn’t that pretty much the same for any profession?

All of this to say that I wonder how it will be to leave it for a year. I’m not someone who gets bored in general, and I think I’ll find plenty to do during my year of housewifery. When I think about leaving work for a full year, my initial reaction is one of elation and relief, to not have the stresses of work for a full year.And it may be that that is indeed exactly what happens and I find that I don’t miss doctoring at all. This is all, of course, a position of great privilege-many people in my field don’t have the option to just leave it behind for a year, even if they would wish to.

There is a small part of me, though, that is a bit suspicious that I’m actually going to have a harder time leaving behing a professional identity and sense of purpose than I’m realizing. I think of this more as I enjoy interactions at work whether with coworkers or patients, and to think about how those bring variety to my day in a way that my family could not.

Perhaps I’ll just be living a different sort of dream, no?

A few posts ago, I laid out a plan for the places we’re going to go on our journey. In that itinerary I was doing my best to follow good weather since it’s no fun if everyone is freezing cold. After talking to some people and reviewing our plans, I’ve changed them around a bit to be a bit more linear.

So, to start:

First stop North Island, New Zealand. We’ll be doing a fairly typical tourist circuit there. I’ve ditched the option of going to South Island – that is truly cold and most places don’t have central heating! I have no intention of willingly spending  a good degree of time waking up in a 40 degree room. North island: Glow-worm caves, maori carvings, mountain biking in redwood forests, hot beach, wineries and of course, Hobbiton.

Then we’re off to Sydney for doing Sydney things! No real plans here – the opera house, the aquarium are on the list but we’ll figure this out when we get there.

Then to Cairns for Barrier Reef snorkelling. The 2 Australians I’ve spoken to about this both turned up their nose at Cairns for being ridiculously touristy. They also told me they’ve never been there. I’m not worrying about it too much given that we are tourists, and I still want to go to the Reef. I only hope it’s not too bleached before we’re there.

From Cairns to Alice Springs and a drive and camping at Uluru, or Ayer’s Rock, in the center of the country, which is one of the wonders of the world, depending on what site you read.

From there to Darwin in the north of Australia, which is tropical – rainforests, crocodiles. There’s also a festival while we’re there, and supposedly a great water park.

From there we go to Bali for a bit. I’m thinking this will be a good relaxation point for us to have some beach and down time after being on the move during the last 2 weeks. There’s amazing dance and culture there as well, so it won’t be all sitting on the beach…or maybe it will.

From there to Cambodia where we’ll again most likely do the traditional tourist route of going from Phnom Penh to the beaches to the southwest to Siem Reap. From there we have to get to Ho Chi Minh City in Vietnam do fly out to Japan, but that we’ll figure out when we get there.

Then to Japan for 3 full weeks. Starting in Tokyo and making our way southward to eventually fly out of Osaka is the current plan, though again this part needs a bit of planning too. The only thing I have booked so far is our tickets to the Studio Ghibli Museum, because they sell out fast! Tickets for September went on sale June 1st and my first choice date was sold out by June 2nd!

From Japan we have to make our way to Romania somehow. I’m thinking most likely this will involve a stopover in Doha or Dubai, depending on which airline we end up taking.

I cut out short stopovers in Singapore (from Bali to Siem Reap, now flying directly to Phnom Penh) and also a stopover somewhere between Vietnam and Japan (cheaper flights to stop in Taipei). I think we’ll all be happier to be on fewer plane flights and don’t necessarily want to be in a place for just 2 days anyway.

So that’s the plan for the first part of the trip! Next step is planning out what we do once we get to Romania and also a place to stay for when we arrive in New Zealand. The rest of the time I think we can book as we go, with the exception of North Australia where it’s high tourist season and we’ll want to book a bit in advance.

I just cannot wait to get going.

–sf

Our trip is approaching fast. Like all major events, it seems like it’s months and months away until you wake up one day and realize that it’s only weeks. All of the planning and ideas are now becoming reality and things are happening that are now, well, tangible. Or at least as tangible as can be in our computer driven world.

I’ve bought almost all the first batch of plane tickets, from New Zealand to Australia to Bali and to Cambodia. The order of locations has changed somewhat to be a bit more linear and I’ve cut out some of the initial small stopovers. I’m also choosing to spend more money to only fly direct from one point to another. I think we’ll be happier in the end and I usually find that when push comes to shove in times like this, you’re almost NEVER happy you saved the few hundred dollars.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the rhythm of our life here, and how much that’s going to change. Weekends I’m not working (and almost every day now that it’s summer) we all wake up rather lazily, make coffee, and sit around the house and on the back patio reading for a few hours until we think it’s time to do something. Usually that “something” involves the kids running down to the neighbor’s house to play while Eric and I go workout or get some stuff done around the house. Or we decide to go for a bike ride or maybe go swimming. After that we make more coffee and repeat the morning.

If  I make it sound idyllic, well, sometimes it is. Not that there aren’t plenty of times when the kids get yelled at for not doing something or another or other such normal life annoyances, but most of the time now it’s pretty relaxed. I’m almost fearful to say this out loud for fear that there will be some cosmic retribution to equalize this goodness. Or maybe this is the equalization for all the tough years when everyone was up at 5 am and trying to keep the kids from injuring themselves all day.

So I think of this as we get ready for our trip, how the overall timbre of our lives will change. I know that there will be many days where we’re up early and moving all day, and those will be fabulous. And I also hope that we are able to have days where we try to replicate our slow Saturday mornings here, getting coffee somewhere and lazing about, all of us with a book in our hands, and giving ourselves time to savor the experience of just being somewhere too.

–sf

See my posts at: ericfretz.wordpress.com

This week I made oatmeal but it isn’t just oatmeal it is special oatmeal! 😮 So first, put two or more cups of water in a pot. 🙂

this post got lost I might rewrite it

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Have you ever seen the ocean? Let alone its floor? I will take you on a journey to the bottom of the seafloor. Once you are past the coral the seafloor will drop and after the drop the life will seem to disappear but look closer and life is still thriving, but not as extravagantly as coral life. You can find families or urchins, a lone tripod fish, at the edge of perilous cliffs animals shaped to look like plants to catch micro animals such as amphipods and other such micro animals. Very rarely an entire whale will sink to the seafloor and animals will feed on it for years. The first to find such a big feast will be the hag fishes then sharks and so on, after some of the bones are picked clean plankton and bacteria will take root on the bones and live there, and after a year or so the hagfish, all ways first to come last to leave, will still chewing on some meat still there. Go even deeper and you will encounter hydrothermal vents, these vents are connected to the mantle when water seeps into holes in the ground and mixes with the magma it releases poisonous gases and a thick black steam, the temperature of the water is so hot that usually it would turn to steam but because of the high pressure the water stays water. Earlier I mentioned that hydrothermal vents released poisonous gases and might thinking“How could life survive there?” In bafflement. Well life survives by, instead of the bottom of the food chain being plants they are micro plankton and are then eaten by tube worms and stuff like the then crabs and finally to the fish which are very rare down here. To conclude this I will talk about the the natural phenomena under water lakes. Now this no doubt making you ask“Underground lakes ! ill believe underwater lakes but that is just absurd!”But it is possible it is just heavier-brine-filled water than the surrounding water.

-HF

The day of the field trip, before my class got on to the buses, at home, me and my mom packed our bags for the field trip and went to school. After going through the procedures we disembarked, we being the whole of 4th grade, including 77 smelly, loud and not to mention nerdy, and awesome people scattered throughout the throng. I joined up with my group consisting of my mom one of my best friends and his mom and three other friends we, as a group, named ourselves the nerds. First the whole of 4th grade got on two school buses and went to … ONE MILE ABOVE SEA LEVEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! aka thirteen step of the capital building. Then our troop moved onward and yon-ward until we got to… MC. Donald’s! The only thing to say about that is … well don‘t go there. After we got there and went we loaded onto ONE insanely packed bus to go to City Park. After City Park the rest of the day went past in a blaze as we were so fatigued, but we still we went to Union Station jumped on the 150 Meridian( I think…) and saw some cool stuff. And for dinner we went to the Old Spaghetti factory. The end of the days excitement had ended. At least I had thought so! No not quite the excitement had far from ended as, I am a boy I had to sleep with the rest of the boys and boy where the loud! No one fell asleep till 11:00 pretty much.

Once we had all woken up we ate a sugar filled breakfast. And started the ghost part of the tour where we got to see some of the creepiest houses in Denver. Then we were able to see the Supreme Court it was AWESOME!! But that pretty much ended our day. So we went back to the mansion and got on buses and drove back to school

-HF